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“Apply the Positive Practice of PATIENCE with People"

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering (PATIENCE), gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.

(Galatians 5:22-23)

PATIENCE is "waiting with the right attitude” (BKLC)

Dr. Rosché says: We all desire to have what we want when we want it and how we want it.We are born with this desire as we all know that babies cry and experiencing a level of distress when they don't get what they want when they want it. Toddlers throw tantrums and Teenagers develop negative attitudes followed by rebellion and disobedience. Many adults know and understand this experience very well. When will my baby daddy step up and be a better father? When will my baby momma stop using my child as a pawn to get what she wants? When will my children start listening to me? When will my loved one grow up and stop acting like child? Overall, when will they get what I am trying to say to them to help improve their lives? So the question is how do we grow up and change our attitude about waiting, especially on other's behaviors to change?

In order to be patient or wait with the right attitude, it begins with changing your internal dialogue.

A) Pay attention to when you are not patient

B) Know your triggers

C) What are you saying to yourself about the situation or person?

D) What is the storyline about how they are wrong? Need to change Now?

Change the Narrative in your head?

Where we often go astray with the becoming patient is that we often try to change the other person that is causing our discomfort. But the problem is that it’s not them whom we have control over but only our mindset and ourselves.

In order to have the right attitude with people Bishop Keith Clark says you have to

• Stop Complaining
• Stop Comparing the person with others and evaluate them on their own merit
• Prayerfully and positively encourage them to make necessary changes
• Only continue patience with those who are making Attempts and not Excuses

Patience is endurance in difficult circumstances, which means it is important to notice your feelings then respond instead of react when you become impatient with others pace of progress. Once you master this you will be happier, peaceful and successful!!!

I know it’s WORKand it’s easier to continue to do the same thing over and over again because you and Drama have become such close friends over the years, but break yourself from this friend and introduce yourself to some new friends named Peace, Hope, and Success. Nobody said it would be easy, but God hasn’t brought you this far to LEAVE you. Remember to ask for HIS Guidance in beginning this process. I am here for you too and I’m willing to answer any questions you may have about what hinders your ability to make progress in this area.

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Dr. Rosché