What if I am a Hater?

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Response to IGNORE your Haters: “What if I am a Hater?”

Question from a reader: “So... What happens when you discover that you have been a hater? What steps can you take to get out of that situation? How does a hater mend broken relationships?

Dr. Rosché says:  

1.     First and foremost you must Admit when you are or have been wrong. 

Have you ever been jealous of another person’s success?  Have you believed they did not  work hard for their success like you have?  Have you been the person who discouraged other people’s dreams? Have you created negativity that caused another person to be distracted?  If you placed yourself on the receiving end of your behavior or words, how might you feel about what was said or felt about you? Sad? Angry? Discouraged? Upset? Etc.…

2.     If you have been a Hater, then you have to S.T.O.P. 

Stay, Training, Oneself to be Positive.

·      Do the opposite action: Take the Positive Challenge. 

·      Say 2 Positive things to those you have hated on in the past. 

o   If you Distracted, the give them suggestions on being Focused

o   If you Discouraged them, send them encouraging words

o   If you attempted to Destroy them, Uplift them instead.

·      Self-Work: Explore what inside of you is being triggered by this person’s success. 

·      Change your outlook on others success and FOCUS on your success 

STOP comparing yourself with others. God has given you gifts, talents, and abilities that make you unique and if you are mindful of the favor God has anointed you with then you will experience the same amount of success as others will.  Don't kill their dreams because you don't want anyone to kill yours.  Stay Positive. 

 Keep it POP'n  (Positive on Purpose)  

I know it’s WORK and it’s easier to continue to do the same thing over and over again because you and Drama have become such close friends over the years, but break yourself from this friend and introduce yourself to some new friends named Peace, Hope, and Success. Nobody said it would be easy, but God hasn’t brought you this far to LEAVE you. Remember to ask for HIS Guidance in beginning this process. I am here for you too and I’m willing to answer any questions you may have about what hinders your ability to make progress in this area.

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